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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kids need to learn they can't have everything they want it the exact second they want it.  Also, policed "sharing" isn't a useful life lesson either - when else in life can an adult walk up to another person and demand a term with whatever is in that person's hands?

Our childs' preschool uses the approach that toys which are being used are not available for "sharing" until the child using the toy finishes with it and returns it to its place.  Children are encouraged to be mindful of taking turns, but it is not enforced or required.  It works.  The kids learn pretty quickly i[b]f they hog the prized toys, they won't have anyone to play with and wont have any friends.[/b]  
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I'm not sure if this applies to siblings.

Is it the same kid instigating or is something they share? :)

We've had this issue from time to time and the kids alternate who does the instigating.  I don't know the best way to approach it, but if an argument ensues, we give each kid 5 minutes and put the toy away.  (It's completely ridiculous b/c they have tons of other toys they can play with.)

Handle it the way you see best.  Don't be intimidated b/c your parents are there.  (Your mom will just have to trust your instincts.)
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