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[quote=Anonymous]My DH's family is local and we see them all the time. My family is in the Midwest and we go out to visit once a year. We drive over 12 hours because it's too expensive for 5 of us to fly. I wish the distances were reversed because, frankly, DH's family really isn't that nice and mine is a lot nicer and a lot more fun. But, it's not about what I want, it's about what we can afford and what I'm willing to give up. I'm not willing to give up more vacation time/money on my family of origin. I'd rather spend that money on experiences/memories of my nuclear family. It sounds like your DH isn't there yet. You need to have agreement on what your goals are and how to accomplish them. If it's important for him to see his family more, you need to come up with a plan to do that. That might include you getting a part time or seasonal job to make it happen.[/quote]
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