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[quote=Anonymous]I also had a very difficult family as a teenager and saw very little of my parents when I was a young adult. What stands out for me in your description of your recent contact with your family is that they haven't offered any apologies or remorse, or even acknowledged their bad behavior, instead it's all about how you are a bad person if you don't allow them contact. Personally, in your situation, I would not re-establish contact. It sounds like you would be returning to a less volatile, but still very negative situation. Maybe you would subject yourself to that, but why subject your husband and child. I have re-established with my parents, but they have now returned to being the kind, loving people I remember from my early childhood. Good luck, it's really hard to find the right balance with difficult family members.[/quote]
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