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[quote=Anonymous]Go to the meetings. Just find one today, anywhere, and go. And then find a therapist that understands addiction. Go alone to that person. My friend saw Anita Gadhia-Smith when her husband was drinking and smoking pot in a way that was out of control. He was in classic alcoholic denial. Secrecy is huge with the addict--you are not allowed to tell anyone. Your husband is counting on you to protect his illness. Do not. It is destroying you. And it is destroying him. My friend and her husband are on the other side of it--she found the strength to make it clear that he needed help or she would leave. It wasn't an empty threat as it had been in the past. He went to rehab and found the help he needed. They've been doing great for the past two years. Good luck OP. you can do this. You're not a victim and you do not need to be his secret keeper. You deserve so much more than you're settling for right now. [/quote]
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