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[quote=Anonymous]Wow.  You were not suspicious and he confessed because he couldn't deal with lying to you.

For myself, I have a bright-line rule on this sort of thing, but since you are not in same the mental place I am, I am trying to be constructive.

So I will say, the (bigger) problem I have with cheating is the lying.  The look-in-your-eyes-and-lie-to-you-a-thousand-times-over about a zillion little things to keep the house of cards going.

I would say, (because I have to) that if you go forward with him, you MUST recognize that one scenario you will have to consider more than your other relationships is that you may end up married, with a couple kids and another on the way, or a newborn, and be faced with this situation again.  And so you have to come to terms with that and if the risk is acceptable to you, then go forward but have a plan for this scenario.  Because it will not be just you anymore; kids will be involved and if not handled well it can be devastating to them.
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