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[quote=Anonymous]So, four days before TG, my H suddenly has an idea of driving to Vegas for the holidays. We have no family obligations but have a 3 yo. It is a 10 hour drive even with minimal stops. So this means a day of driving, spending two nights, and another day of driving back.

I tell him I don't feel comfortable with all the driving with only 4 days and a young child; but would be happy to look at closer destinations (we are in CA so there are plenty), And would prefer flying to vegas on some lower season dates, possibly with friends who we could swap childcare with, etc. He accuses me of not wanting to travel, ever, and wants to go by himself. I am ok with this in theory (our relationship is not great so I am ok taking a little break from him, and I honestly don't think he will cheat or gamble on a large scale), but he keeps telling me what I am missing on, etc etc, and it irritates the crap out of me.

I just hate this whole situation; why did he have to put me in it? Or am I just a nag not appreciative of an " adventure" my romantic H suggests? I feel like he just set this whole thing up knowing I would refuse and taking a fun break from family (it's probably not true but still feels totally inconsiderate).
Fwiw, we are both foreigners so don't place as much emphasis on Thanksgiving, but still.
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