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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She asked if it's healthy; I don't think it is. I think the intense focus that infertile couples have on their babymaking status is fundamentally unhealthy and reinforces the misconception that their lives cannot be meaningful and satisfying until they have children. I have seen many, many friends who wish they would have spent more time enjoying the lives they had rather than obsessing over what they perceive is missing.

It reminds me of those cats that go through false pregnancies and try to nurse socks. Sad.[/quote]

Sad?  Sad??  What's sad is your heart.  How dare you come on here and judge?  Do you deal with these issues?  Do you have the pain and heartache every month of wanting something more than anything in this world and seeing failure after failure that's beyond your control?  Until you've spent a second in our lives, don't you dare post on this site again.

OP- I totally get it.  We tried for two years and I would go to stores and walk up and down the baby aisles looking and wishing and praying.  I thought it was therapeutic but in retrospect it just made me sad.  I have a wonderful son now and we are heading down the path for number two.  I'll pray for your success.[/quote]

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