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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] When I remind him of the deal we had, he replied with "Either you move in with me and we can live in here and my life will be back to what it used to be until I'm 18 or I can sell the house and seek emancipation!"
When I tried to tell him that what he's doing is wrong. He hung up.

I've tried to call him a few more times and he refused to answer.

I have never felt so lost. I just don't know what to do any more and am really afraid of what will happen.[/quote]

Your poor son!

So when he was 10 years old, you married a new guy?   New husband brought his own kids to the marriage, and you and new husband had a baby and at 10 years old, your son felt so bad with you and new husband and a bunch of new kids, that he left your house and moved in with his dad?

Things were kind of OK for 4 years, and then his dad fell for this other woman, when Gabe was 14.   He fell really hard for her, even though she didn't get along with his kid... so at that point, age 14, Gabe was dealing with a dad involved with a woman with 2 disabled kids, and a mom married to a new husband with a couple of odler kids and a 4 year old little half brother... and no one really liked him or wanted him around?

And then last summer, new girlfriend and 2 severely disabled kids move in with Gabe and his dad -- and woman wants HIM (Gabe) to be a good role model for the disabled kids and starts going through his stuff, taking him out of boxing?
Holey moley -- no wonder he's upset with her!

And his dad dies... and he wants out of the relationship with dad's girlfriend and disabled kids... I can totally understand that!

He is crying out to you for help -- he feels you abandoned him for your new husband.   What on earth was that about??  How can you let your 10 year old kid just move out of your house because he isn't getting along with your new husband AND HIS KIDS??

You need to pick up the pieces now.   He's not an adult.   He is 16.  He happens to own property, the house where he and his father lived very happily for 4 years.   New girlfriend has only been there a few months.... she should go back to wherever she was living before she moved in.   She has no connection to your son.  She is not his responsibility, and she clearly didn't care for him, but was using him for her own needs.   That's not cool.

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