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[quote=Anonymous]Flexible and creative is the name of the game, especially as life changes with births, deaths, moves, etc. We have our set up for now and I don't 100% love our compromises, but I know they will change again for various reasons. I had to give up my version of thanksgiving, but we go to my families lake house for the remainder of the weekend. So I gave up a meal but get the rest of the weekend. By redefining thanksgiving in my head to include the full weekend rather than the one meal, it balances out a little more easily. So it may involve adding traditions to the ones already in place. We are Jewish so we claimed a night of Chanukah to host. Since you don't celebrate Christmas, maybestart a tradition of hosting the family for December 25. Don't try to make it into Christmas, but have a family day, and cook or order infood, rent movies, play games with the kids etc.[/quote]
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