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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am always trying to choose my words carefully, neutrally--a lot of "I don't see it that way" or "from my perspective, it makes more sense to to XYZ"--and yet [b]if I do not agree with him on something he gets angry, passive aggressive or aggressive [/b]and claims I am always "dismissing him." He will then pick fights or harangue me until I've lost my cool and start screaming back, if I do not pull it together enough to walk away.

Let me also state that he has no problem telling me not simply that he disagrees but in fact that "I'm WRONG" (a phrase I hear a lot--no, you're wrong, rather than "I don't see it that way.").

He's always been contentious but its horrible now, and frequent. We have two young children. We tried counseling, but it didn't really work and was a huge money pit. [b]He never did any of the exercises we were supposed to do (listening, mirroring) and was too stressed by the time/money commitment[/b]. [/quote]

He doesn't want to change.  At least, that is what it sounds like.

What was he like in these situations before you got married?[/quote]

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