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[quote=Anonymous]For the first time in 10 years, DH and I paid off all out major credit card debt. It was such an exhilirating feeling. Then, I got the wind knocked out of my sails when I looked at a credit card bill, that was just paid off, that he'd run up to over $3000. I was stunned. It had just been a month and of course I reacted harshly, which is never a good idea with him because he goes into a defensive and defiant mode and resents me checking up on him. I guess the bottom line to me is why is he buying things (i.e., cases of wine, clothes etc.) that are really not necessities. He has an extensive wardrobe, many more clothes than I have. I don't feel like we are on the same page. Once we got debt free, I realized that we have enough "things". Perhaps buying things and getting packages in the mail is exciting to him. We are in good financial health and I want to stay that way. Is anyone else experiencing this frustration with their spouse?[/quote]
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