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[quote=Anonymous]Most families I know - and this is a common problem here - solve this by alternating. You get what you want one year, DH gets what he wants the next year, repeat. Though personally, my extended family has been through a very rough couple of years with illnesses...and while at one point in my life it felt really important to me to have a big holiday that was all about me and my house, it isn't anymore. I agree, OP, that over time the big meal will fall apart as the cousins get older and have their own families. Then you can fill that gap. You will have many years to fill that gap once it starts happening, but the Thanksgivings with that group all together and all healthy are limited. I guess I feel like maybe being indulgent is the right move here.[/quote]
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