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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know this has been posted before.  We have siblings/cousins on both sides whom we are all on good terms with.  I always thought when we all had kids, we would do holidays together, and really try to maintain close relationships for our kids.  Without getting into the details now, it's been really disappointing that on both sides (meaning DH and my family) the cousins just aren't that interested in making plans work.  I.e. [b]family get togethers only happen if they happen to work for their schedule,[/b] and getting together isn't a priority.  I'm not sure what kind of advice I'm looking for but maybe this is just a vent.  Anyone else gone through this?[/quote]

How else would they happen?  Surely you don't expect them to cancel previously scheduled plans in order to get together.  People are busy with jobs and kids, they also have other more immediate family and in-laws to balance, friendships to maintain, etc.  If you want to get together, plan events and let the people who can make it, come.  People aren't going to maintain relationships so that their kids can be close to their second cousins.  You need to lose the ideal family situation you have in your head and look at what the best way is to maintain family relationships with the family you actually have, otherwise you're going to be disappointed a lot.  [/quote]

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