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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. I realize as an adult that he isn't the most socially skilled person and tends to not have great boundaries. He is kind of a touchy-feely person and I have seen him kind of make people uncomfortable - being in their personal space or grabbing their arm to drag them onto the dance floor. He has a bit of an over the top personality, he can be a bit loud and impulsive (he also has untreated ADHD).

I do know their concerns, they told me those when I was 18 and planning to get back in touch with him. They didn't like that he paid so much attention to me, that he was physically affectionate with me (I would sit on his lap), and they found him in my bed in his underwear. That happened and I actually used to sneak out of my room and get into his bed however it was because he would tell me these amazing stories that he would make up (or were movie plots) and I would ask him all kinds of questions and we would keep adding to the story. To my knowledge there was never anything sexual, any touching, and none of the stories ever had a sexual overtone. As an adult I can see the inappropriateness in this however I actually still have very fond memories of those stories and of being able to be creative and imaginative. My parents were scientists and very rational/logical people and they didn't appreciate my imagination and creative stories!

So I can understand their suspicion but I I really truly 100% don't think (based on everything that I can remember, and my instinct) that anything bad ever happened. [/quote]

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