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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Think of it as making a permanent lifestyle change and not an effort to lose weight. Also, this is a complete wild guess so ignore it if it is not appropriate: do you have any issues about feeling vulnerable if you look good? If you have problems setting boundaries with people, you might feel safer with the extra pounds. So learning to set boundaries might be important. Again, a total guess....[/quote] NP here, and yes, I do feel vulnerable when I look good. I can't intellectually make sense of this. How do I get over this? I sort of "hide" myself wrapped up in the extra pounds, as if I am cushioning my fragile self in bubble wrap or something. I honestly don't intellectually know why, though. I have never had a bad experience, like anyone taking advantage of me, etc etc etc. So, why???? [/quote]
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