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Reply to "How do you be the supportive spouse in this situation?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]It sounds as if she is what you call a difficult person. They generally lack selfawareness about their personalities and how they affect people around them. I don't think a person like this needs support until they understand they are the problem. Otherwise nothing will change. If you enter couples counseling i am certain the therapist will understand this and want to take care of this problem first and foremost. [/quote] Bad advice. She may be a difficult person, but it is foolish to think that one person is 100% the problem in any relationship. The fact of the matter is when a relationship is bad, both partners are feeding into it and need to reconsider the ways they cope in the relationship. Any good therapist avoids one sided blame and works with both individuals to handle the problem.[/quote]
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