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[quote=Anonymous]OP again, he grew up actually fairly wealthy, not like summers at the house in France stuff, but private schools, camp, upper middle class. he says that he feels out of control in a lot of aspects of his life and he tends to hone in on the bank account as a thing he can control. He LOVES paying the bills, contributing to and looking at our 401k, etc. he's just anal. I like the idea of using my own card and having a limit we agree on. I also thought about taking out $100 every Monday. I can be sensitive to, for example, the waste of eating a $12 salad everyday at choppt, but I guess even if I did that, given our circumstances, it's not reasonable to ask and follow up and quiz me about small habits. Being put on the defensive makes me feel like he's being really patronizing. [/quote]
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