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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and i have been married just over a year and have a young baby.  We're in our 40's.  And I am so lonely.  He spent the morning sleeping while I took care of the baby.  Then he cared for the baby while I paid bills.  He watched TV while I nursed, and now I'm home alone while they went for an errand.  He barely talks to me.  He drinks every night after I go to bed (I nurse the cavy to sleep, then usually fall asleep myself.) He stays up and does everything for us, like cleaning the kitchen , wading bottled, packing lunches, getting the baby's day care stuff ready.  When I say I want to stay up and help, he shooes me to bed.  When he finally comes to bed, he smells like gin and rarely touches me.

I touch him.  I try to talk with him.  He says everything is fine, then proceeds to ignore me.  He futzes on his iPhone or iPad if he's not interacting with the baby.  (I retreat into DCUM, too.) I say I want to spend time with him and he ignores me.  We don't do anything or go anywhere except for work.  I rarely gave friends over because it's so tense between us.  I'm so lonely I could cry, but if I let myself start to cry I'm afraid I'll never stop.  I've asked to go to marriage counseling bit he says there's no time.

I don't know why I'm even posting.  I'm just so sad and alone.[/quote]

You shouldn't be nursing a baby to sleep. Bad idea.[/quote]

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