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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So I'm not being a wimp for freaking out every time?

My family and partner aren't telling me to "just deal with it" by any means, they've been reassuring and reminding me that he can't do anything to me, he's far away, emails mean nothing, we're legally prepared if he drags me back to court, he can't take away my stability, etc.

But I feel so guilty for being such a mess. Other women had/have it worse than I did and are able to deal with it much more gracefully. A few members of my family were abused, but they were able to cut the abusers totally out of their life. I'm also the first person in my extended family to deal with divorce. I don't have a frame of reference here.

I have worked hard to build a life and I am terrified that he can decided to drag me back to court and take it all away. Our child has no memory of him, he hasn't been around for over half of her life. [/quote]
Get a clear custody order in place, have him deal only with your attorney. I would not have him anywhere near your child. People who abuse adults will abuse children...especially if they hate the other parent. Better safe than sorry. He's probably just talking and will do nothing to get the kid for thanksgiving...but get ur attorney involved[/quote]

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