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[quote=Anonymous]I have joint legal and physical custody with my ex, but I have the lion's share of custody. (5 days/week.) He's responsible and a good guy, but has ADD and won't agree to take on more custody because he worries about being able to manage his life. The way our arrangement works, I pay for everything and handle all kid-related administration and he pays his support every month. I run decisions by him - soccer or ballet this semester? Saturday at 1 or Sunday at 11? We make school and health decisions jointly, but I am responsible for all paperwork, appointments, etc. I do wish I had someone to share more of the load, but I'm an organizer/planner and he is not, so this works.[/quote]
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