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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Definitely try to go out for adult time if possible.

Also, OP, don't project too much about what she's feeling.  There might be a mood or you might be imagining it.  (She might just be tired or have other things on her mind.)[/quote]

Agree on all points.  It absolutely can be difficult to see other children who are developing if your child is struggling.  But, like with all things, it's variable and her moods may have everything to do with that, or nothing.

Continue to share your kid's accomplishments, and make sure to acknowledge her kids as well.  I so appreciate when my friends take the time to notice that my child is doing x y or z, and celebrate with me.  I also really appreciate when my friends ask questions or are direct about my child's special needs.  The worst friendship issues I've encountered have been with people who just ignore the whole topic or who give me generic 'I don't know how you do it' or 'oh it will all work out' or 'he'll catch up/miracles happen/my mothers cousins best friend's teachers kid had autism and was cured when they eliminated all blue clothes from his wardrobe...'

I'd much prefer a friend who is interested in hearing my true experiences and also interested in learning.  [/quote]

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