Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)
Reply to "Working Married Couples"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's about what works for the two of you. DH and I manage our funds and bills jointly - everything goes into one pot (well, actually a few pots that include savings accounts and our checking account). We pay our bills out of our checking account and any discretionary items come out of that account, too. For us, it's easist to manage our money that way and we both have visibility into our spending and finances. We do consult each other if we individually make big purchases, but we've never vetoed the other's purchase. We're on the same page in terms of financial priorities which is important, too. I guess the disadvantage would be if we wanted different things for our money or we didn't agree with how to manage our finances. My BIL and his wife split their money - they both have individual checking and savings accounts, seperate credit cards, seperate retirement savings. I think he covers the mortgage and a variety of household bills and she covers child care and other household expenses. They recently purchased a car and my BIL noted that they contributed to it 70/30 since he was going to drive it more frequently. That system works very well for them. Again, it's what works best for you. [/quote] How do you handle a "surprise gift"? [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics