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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Many parents don't get home until 6:30/7:00 so I don't think that should mean he doesn't get the kids overnight. He will be able to do dinner and bedtime and spend time with them in the morning before school. It is likely they will get to bed a little later at his place because of his schedule, just like many kids of parents who work later go to bed later. In the same way that if you worked later, you would probably keep them up a bit to see them. What time do they currently go to bed? Can he pick them up from your place when he gets off work? can bedtime be pushed back a bit at both places so it is still consistent?

I don't think it makes sense for them to be with a babysitter. Although they might balk at him picking them up from you at 6:30/7:00

Is there any way for him to change his schedule now that you are separated or is that schedule the only option? How many days off does he have - is it consistent days? Is there anyway he could get a Saturday or Sunday off? Is he open to finding a job with hours more conducive to parenting?

I don't think it is good for the kids or their relationship with dad to only see him on Friday evenings, and the occasional other random evening.  Did he used to spend time with them in the mornings? What are they used to in terms of interacting with dad?[/quote]

When does he pick them up? :roll: [/quote]

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