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[quote=Anonymous]We have 2 children ages 6 and 3.  DH and I are currently separated living in two different apartments.  Currently I have the children most days during the week and DH has them on random days when he does not work and most Friday nights.  I should start by saying that DH works untraditional hours.  He works from 3:30pm - 6:30/7pm during the week and all day Saturday and Sunday.  He is never home for homework time, dinner and bed time (he says goodnight to the kids but does not help with bedtime routine).  We are trying very hard to come up with an agreement that would work for everyone and be the best for the children (ultimate goal).  I am the one who picks up from school, gets homework done, dinner, bath, books and bed.  I would prefer to have the children during the week because I am very organized and get homework done and children to bed on time.  When DH has them at his house during the week the kids go to bed very late and are very tired at school the next day.  He definitely wants 50% percent custody but admitted he will use a babysitter most of the time.  For those of you who have BTDT, please help me try to determine what type of schedule would be best for the children.  I want the children to have structure and not feel they are with him one night and me the next. etc.  . . . .[/quote]

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