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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with the above posters - that woman sounds like an insecure, selfish bitch. I wouldn't trust her, wouldn't tell her a thing, and wouldn't seek her out. Maybe you and DH have other couples that you could spend more time with?

As for DH - his response was uncalled for and petty but I wonder where it's coming from?  As a PP suggested, maybe he's feeling hurt and embarrassed?  Look at it from his perspective... He may be sitting there at dinner feeling as though both the bitch and her husband know that he's not getting any sex from his wife and he's ashamed?  A snarky comment in the car was his way of letting you know, possibly.

But you love him, so I'd imagine that after 19 years together you two can sit down and talk about this as opposed to ignoring him. Giving him space may be the worst thing you could do. He may start taking what your bitchy friend said seriously and consider ways outside of the marriage to fulfill his desires.

I'd sit down and think about what turns you on, and then tell your husband. I understand you don't have the same appetitie that he does, but for the sake of your marriage, you should be trying for sex at least once a week. Maybe go to a sex shop together and get yourself a toy?  Whatever makes you feel sexy, confident, and eager.

Good luck!![/quote]

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