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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Read the Sandcastles book on divorce. No matter how much of an ass your ex is, protect your children as much as you can from having to acknowledge that. They will figure it out on their own eventually. When you are young, having to think your parent is a jerk means YOU are 50% jerk. Having to listen to your dad complain about supporting you makes you feel unloved and rejected. Don't lie to your kids but don't ever do or say anything negative. Sandcastles book stat. [/quote] Thank you, I will get it ASAP. It doesn't make sense to me how people bad talk their ex to their children, to hear bad things about your parent is heartbreaking and it wasn't going to come from me. I've heard where that can also really come back at the person in the future. I just don't want anymore regrets in my life. Your response has made more sense to me then any other suggestions from people I know, that tell me I am just prolonging them knowing what a piece of @$!% he really is. [/quote]
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