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[quote=Anonymous]I knew a man in this situation. Everyone in the family knew he had been adopted, but him. When the mother died, before her death, she asked the sister (her biological daughter) to shred the adoption papers. She did, and then she kept the secret even longer. His world has been rocked to the core, and he is in therapy. He has a great wife and kids who support him, though. Do not underestimate the profound effect this will have on your brother. BUT, it is his moral right to know the truth. It is a horrible violation of trust that his family has colluded in lying to him for this long. Hugs to you and to him. This is tough stuff. He deserves to know who is biological father is, if he chooses to search. Perhaps that information can give him some peace. I would hope your grandmother, before she passes, will provide that information to him. She surely knows who the dad was. [/quote]
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