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[quote=Anonymous]1. Just do it. Say that you don't see the two of you ever being married and you've been together too long for it to continue with no future.

Things to avoid:

- Do not try to give him a detailed list of reasons. It will give him false hope that if he can convince you otherwise or change, you will take him back.

- Do not fish for indications that he isn't mad at you, can see your point of view, knows this must be hard for you to say, etc. You are breaking his heart and he doesn't need to feel bad for you or re-assure you, even though you are going through something difficult too.

- Do not lie to him.

2.  Find somewhere else to stay. Realize that this means the breakup needs to happen almost immediately, because there's no other way to spin "I won't stay with my future husband for one month."

3.  That sucks but its his cat, so don't harbor any thought of trying to end up with the cat, especially since you're breaking up with him. There's no way to answer the question of whether you should offer to care for the cat until you've seen how the breakup has gone.[/quote]

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