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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was the wife in this situation and I didn't sleep with the guy. I was having fun and the fun went further than it should have in terms of flirting over drinks after work. I'm extremely thankful for my trusting and generous husband who understood I fucked up and didn't judge me to be a lying slut, but took it for the stupid selfish mistake I made. [/quote]

HA!!!  You already went too far when you agreed to 1.) meet and 2.) have drinks.  You also went too far earlier before you did 1 and 2.  You've been flirting before this at work to even lead up to this.  Had your trusting and generous husband not talk to you, you'd be posting how awesome it was to be pounded by another man outside your marriage.

He may not have judged you.  But you need to take a long hard look at yourself.  You could have lost everything. You still may.  These things dont just go away.  It'll resurface and you need to be prepared to deal with the aftermath. [/quote]

Firstly, I never denied I went too far. That's exactly my point. That I did. Secondly, it was me who brought it all up with my husband. I was the one who put a break on things and decided to come clean with DH. Thirdly, even if I was pounded in the most satanically yet heavenly way by the hottest fucking guy on earth, I would never share it with you or anyone else on this forum. Fourthly, I did take a long hard look at myself. That was why I brought it up with DH. I was aware that I could have lost everything, even though nothing ever happened. And DH and I have moved on in a very positive manner. We both learned from the situation in ways that improved our relationship.

And let's face it - the discussion on this forum about whether you can be attracted to other people while being married and in love with someone, is like the discussion about god and atheism. There are those who completely believe things to be one way and believe it should be that way for everyone else just because that's what they believe. So yeah, if you have ever flirted or felt some kind of attraction for someone who is not your partner, than you're a selfish pig who doesn't even know what love is and can only think about banging everything that walks. [/quote]

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