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Reply to "just not sure I can do it - semi rant/dump. Maybe will help someone feel less alone"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One thing, especially about addiction and dysfunction, it seems that the co-dependent spouse (OP in this case) actually really likes her role in the relationship-even if she will not admit it. When the addicted spouse starts to get better the co-dependent spouse actually gets upset and finds fault with the addict. I think the OP does not like the positive changes in her husband. Her role gets marginalized and she no longer has someone to blame for all of her own problems and is starting to face that fact that she has issues, instead of having a person to chronically blame for her unhappiness. After 20 years of OP supposedly having a miserable marriage, it does not come down to her having "patience" and "resilience" she just as fucked up as him. [/quote] OP here. This is really hilarious, actually. You actually have made me laugh on a difficult day. I know you take yourself very seriously, which makes is even funnier. So, thanks![/quote]
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