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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At least he feels remorseful about it. Was he drinking?

Is he usually like this or is this a one time goof?

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everybody has bad days.  and no one was put in danger here.  so, yeah, i'd be mad but not livid.  he should own up to it and it definitely shouldn't happen on a regular basis.  (I, however, would have drug his lardass out of bed to help with the groceries.  With a pitcher of icewater if necessary.)

the bigger red flag is that you "don't really trust" him to take care of the kid.  that could mean lots of different things.  him making minor to major screw-ups on occasion or regularly?  you trying to control every aspect of his parenting? him throwing in the towel because he can't do things right for you?  You not giving him a chance to learn how to take care of the kid on his own?  him not getting invested in figuring things out for himself?  some combination of these?  that's what you need to get to the bottom of.

when sleep-deprived, my DH adopts something of a sullen teenage boy approach where he tries to do as little as possible without directly confronting me about anything, and apologizes immediately if called out just to get me to shut up.  I make the most headway on this lamentable habit if I discuss later, after he's had a good night's sleep.  it still happens.  but less.[/quote]

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