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[quote=Anonymous]single dad here - can't help with any insight on what he's thinking.  but if you see the relationship lasting and maturing beyond where it is now, then you guys need to actually talk about the future and figure out, amongst many things, whether you're on the same page, how will the family blend, whether parenting styles are compatible, etc.  - all of this before you can get involved into his desire to purchase a bigger house.

it just strikes me as odd, especially as he apparently hasn't been married (assuming you are divorced?), that with this such a significant decision, he 'wants' your input but other more fundamental issues have yet to be covered.

I say this given what you posted, assuming you guys haven't yet covered this ground.

if it were me (the roles reversed), I'd maintain my distance from providing anything more than pleasantry feedback (not input) at this stage.  I would be very hesitant to go house hunting - it would definitely send the wrong message to him (we guys are literal).[/quote]

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