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There is a time and place for everything and this is not the time or place. I feel awful about myself right now and freely admit I am self conscience and jealous. It was a hard pregnancy that took 7 years to achieve and I guess I just want him to WANT to not go. [b]And I wish that he had the balls to say that he didn't want to disrespect my feelings and do something else instead.[/b] I want him to have a good time always. I just don't think THIS is the time or place to be looking at hot naked women. I guess I was just hoping that he'd understand my perspective. [/quote]

As PP said...you have to be direct and honest about your feelings.  [b]Hoping[/b] that he can read your mind and will end up doing what you want is a mistake.  Then bashing him because he did not make the decision that you hoped he would make compunds that mistake. Don't play those types of games....it spells doom in a marriage.  Speak your mind directly - "Honey, I do not think it is appropriate for you to go and here is why."  You need to have an open discussion with each other about it.  Don't expect him to understand your perspective - help him understand your persepective.  Now you DO have a right to be peeved if you are honest and he goes anyway.

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