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[quote=Anonymous]So I have been friends with DH's best friend's (Craig) wife (Amy) for a few years now.  Saturday Amy and I had a girls' night with some of our other friends and while one of our single friends was regaling us with tales of her online dating experience, Amy, who was pretty drunk, blurted out that Craig had told her he wanted to sleep with me.  After a couple seconds of silence, another friend said something along the lines of "Oh Amy, I'm sure you just misheard him" to which she replied "no, he's said it a few times now."   We all kind of flubbed through it (oh amy he wouldn't say that, he loves you, he wouldn't want to cheat on you, no amy I would never do anything with him) someone changed the subject and the rest of the night went on.  I didn't get a chance to talk to her on Sunday, so yesterday I reached out in a half joking manner and said "how did you feel yesterday?  Were you hurting at all from all those martinis".  She replied "Yeah, I had a headache for most of the day."  We kind of did a back and forth about how we can't drink like we did in college etc and after a few moments of silence , she texted me back and said "ya know, I meant what I said on Saturday.  He's mentioned it a handful of times."  Again I kind of flubbed back that I would never help him cheat, no interest in him, wouldn't cheat on DH and I'm sure said a bunch of wrong things.  She changed the subject which I took as my cue to shut up about it.

Anyways, Dh and Craig are part of an organization that meets once a month.  Because the meeting is 10 min from our house and 45 min from Craig's, he often gets together with DH and other friends for a guys' night the night before and then they take a cab home and he stays in our guest room.  He's supposed to spend the night here on Friday.  I'm really not comfortable with it, at all.  It isn't like I think he is going to try something, so perhaps I am overreacting.  If I am, please tell me.  If I tell DH why I don't want Craig to spend the night, he'll want to know why.  And for obvious reasons, I don't want to tell him his best friend has made comments about wanting to sleep with me.

So WWYD?  Am I overreacting and should I just let him stay here?  Ugh I have no idea how to go forward.  I feel like every time we get together it is just going to be awkward.  [/quote]

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