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[quote=Anonymous]I'm of the school that family sticks together - but that doesn't mean you have to be the doormat. She needs serious therapy and counseling and she has to be told in no uncertain terms that she has to find a job and support herself and her two kids. the problem is that if she doesn't want to change, herself, she'll never listen to you - so an independent voice might be what's needed for her to listen and to take action. you (and your folks) need to draw the hard line - be there when you can (not when she asks) for emotional support. but even that, I'd be very cautious b/c you can get sucked into her black hole of a life again. very sorry for you OP.[/quote]
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