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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]you need to get to individual counseling - for your mental health and to ensure that the kids aren't seeing mom lose her shit.

maybe in a day or two - well after you are calm and collected - you'll need to have a very frank and direct conversation with your husband.

women are terrible about being direct - men don't read between the lines or understand your hidden code words and we take things literally. (my exW was never direct even though at the time she thought she was - only now 2 years later has she agreed she could have handled things differently - maybe same outcome - but much more open and plain spoken about what she wanted).

so tell him what's going on, where you are, where you see the marriage going (or not) and put it as plainly and as non-threatening to him as possible - his reaction/action (or lack thereof) will guide you to the next decision you need to make.[/quote]

I agree with this.  But I also think that if you want to spend time with him, you could have gone down at 8 and said, I'm going to bed at 10, why don't we spend some time together now?  Instead of stewing until 10.  And it is also some time for self reflection.  There is a lot directed at your husband (understandable) but how DO you talk to him?  Anyways, I'd suggest calling a psychologist today.  [/quote]

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