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Reply to "How do you know when there is no chance of things changing in a marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous]It is possible for things to change, but there has to be willingness on both sides. In my situation, it took DH a while to come around to therapy, almost a year in fact and I was getting pretty close to walking out the door. I think he was afraid that therapy would just be me venting about my feelings and that he would get blamed for everything. He finally realized that damage that our bad relationship or possible divorce could cause our son and that was the motivation he needed to face what he'd done. In the end I'm glad I found the patience to wait him out and now that we're in therapy things are getting better. We're doing IMAGO therapy, which I saw recommended here a lot and are finding it helpful. Good luck to you, I know how hard it is to get through something like this. [/quote]
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