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[quote=Anonymous]I don't know the answer to this question. However, I could have written your exact post.

My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years and have 4 children. He has inappropriately texted 2 women that I found out about. In each case, he has given me a versed answer as to why. I don't believe he's been 100% truthful nor do I believe he understands how what he did makes me feel as his wife. One day while he was texting back and forth with another woman, he had me bring him lunch and I ate beside him. Little did I know that he was with me and talking to another woman the entire time while I sat right next to him in the dark.

My husband is unwilling to be completely open. His phone is password protected and he will tell you that is because I will look through it. He now has a work phone, as well as his personal cell phone, so in all honesty he's probably talking to many people that I don't know about.

I, like you, have asked him why he stays with me if he's so interested in talking to other women. He doesn't see it that way though and says that he is happy and loves me. In my heart though, I will never be able to fully trust him again. I am the type of person though that wants to walk in on my husband in bed with someone else. That, to me, would be proof. I don't have any intimate proof just texts but the writing is on the wall.

I wish like hell I had a job. I would have been out of here yesterday if I had a place to go and could support my children. [/quote]

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