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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would not go. You now know more about her as a person and that may shape for sure how you see her as a friend. You know that she lies, cheats, betrays, deceives. You now know she doesn't have the integrity of character you thought she did. That is going to influence how you see her as a friend. 
I wouldn't go and watch her act like she cared about her husband when you know she is fucking other men behind his back. It you go and play along, that is really the same as supporting her in having the affair.

Personally I would tell her I can't keep that a secret from my husband - and i would tell her she needed to tell her husband or I would. I think people have a right to know if there are more than 2 people in their marriage. What they decide to do about it is up to them. [/quote]

I'm monogamous,  but I think it it totally wrong to Iinterject yourself smack in the middle of other people's marriages. [/quote]

I wouldn't interject myself into their marriage. Someone has already been interjected into their marriage - it is just that only one party knows. So you personally don't want to know if your spouse is cheating on you however lots of other people. myself included would want to know. I would be pretty angry if we went away on a trip and the others knew that my husband was cheating and I was the only one in the dark - the oblivious fool, while everyone has a good time and covered for my husband.[/quote]

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