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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why would you subject your DD to any time with these people. I get that your DH is probably screwed in the head but you should never, ever put your child in harms way. Why would you allow that? [/quote]

OP here. I am not sure where you got the impression that I "allowed" my DD to be in "harms way". The judgemental shit MIL comes up with she says to me or DH not DD. She would treat DD fine at the restaurant and then say stuff to me later in private about how she "gets her way" and we "baby" her. When she isnt even ever around us to know how we parent our child.

Last year it was SIL (with whom my child now is never to ever spend time with again) who meted out judgemental stuff on DD _and_ us _in front of DD. I told SIL at that time that I was _done_ with her. It was not until literally the last 48 hours that I found out about the nasty treatment of DH, the more regular smacking around, and kind of pieced together a bunch of things spanning many years.

I went ahead and told SIL about the abuse, of which she did not know, and that is of course not her fault.

But since she never explained her judgementalism before, and I now had the real answer as to what she is all about, I reiterated that I am DONE and there will be no being around that woman in particular.

I already explained to DH that I am not spending the holidays with them, and thats that. He is fine with that. So, we are focusing on healing OUR family.
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