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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you and hubby can discuss rationally and amicably, then you don't need lawyers or mediation. Come to agreement on your own on how to split finances, share custody, etc. and then just have lawyers do final paperwork.[/quote] Yes, but a mediator or lawyer can help you think of things you wouldn't necessarily think of on your own. Co-parenting takes a lot of work. It's easier when you can anticipate where you may need structures in place, ie how will you handle the holidays? Who decides what extracurriculars the kids will have and who pays? What if one parent wants to move out of state? It doesn't hurt to have one session with something who does this work everyday. [/quote]
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