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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm just starting this process too and I have to say you sound remarkably level headed. If your ex is at all reasonable I [b]agree that mediation makes a lot of sense for a lot of reasons - less expensive, [/b]but also the more amicable you can keep things between you the better off your kids will be. 
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BTDT here and wondering why you think it's less expensive.  Most people I know spend at least as much on mediation as lawyers.  The only way it's cheaper is of you know the support guidelines in advance and both are willing to live with them.[/quote]

Are you stupid??? Of course a mediator will be less than a lawyer.  A mediator will work to keep you out of court. A mediator is working for both of you. With a mediator, you only pay for your visits. You don't pay for every phone call and email between you and the mediator. With a lawyer, you BOTH end up paying for your own lawyer. You get nickeled and domed at every turn. [/quote]

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