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[quote=Anonymous]I'm just starting this process too and I have to say you sound remarkably level headed. If your ex is at all reasonable I agree that mediation makes a lot of sense for a lot of reasons - less expensive, but also the more amicable you can keep things between you the better off your kids will be. Be prepared for wild swings of emotions and your attitude about the split. Its a huge change even if its what is best for everyone. And bear in mind also that it is a huge change for your kids and their ability to identify and express their feelings is in a much different place than yours. So be prepared for them to act out, have more tantrums than usual, need more from you than usual. I highly recommend therapy for you and possibly the kids too. How old are they?[/quote]
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