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[quote=Anonymous]Find affordable living. Like with any major life change, you won't be able to afford the same lifestyle and that is okay. You need to figure out what you can afford. I assume you will have 50/50 custody so both of you will be paying for all the same living expenses for the kids. If your husband makes more he will likely be required to pay for more in terms of expenses for the kids however as there will be two full households now, the amount he can contribute will be less than what he contributes now. It sounds like it is amicable at the moment. Make a list of all child related expenses and sit down with them and figure out a tentative interim plan - how will you make changes (maybe cheaper childcare that is commutable from both homes) and how you will divide expenses. Decide on a tentative custody agreement for now. If you can have some of it done amicably, it will save you money in lawyer fees.[/quote]
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