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[quote=Anonymous]OP here- thank you all for your thoughts. And  to everyone in the same boat, I really feel for you. The outlook doesn't seem great, does it? To answer a few questions-

- My husband is in shape and good-looking. Visually I think he is handsome, but from the very first kiss there was no chemistry. He is just not arousing to me at all. So there is no spark to rekindle.

- Like PP, I used to be able to conjure up an orgasm but since the stress of young kids and financial issues and fighting I just can't anymore. I can have an orgasm on my own.

- I have never told my husband the full truth because it seems like a horrible, awful, mean thing to say and I have no desire to be mean to him. I have tried all kinds of things as I said, like showing him things I like, etc but it just doesn't work.

- I am painfully aware that this is my problem and my fault, and that I probably didn't believe deep down that I deserved or would find the "whole package" as PP said. But what can I do about it now? I will try doing it more often or working my own thing into our sex.

Thanks, all![/quote]

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