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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, there is an awful lot of blame on your DH but you have some issues here. You married someone who, you knew, you weren't really sexually compatible with. I agree that the other things were important, but it seems like you are dealing with something else here - like maybe you didnt think you deserved the whole package, that there wasn't a guy out there for you who would be a great husband and father and who you were really attracted to. So yeah, I think you can be helped, but it's not just about your husband and your relationship, it's you too. You settled for a long time....why? [/quote] On the other hand, sometimes people marry someone they have intense physical chemistry with and it wanes or changes over time, with careers, with kids, with stress, etc. So it's not like OP was being totally unreasonable and/or down on herself. I think in a long-term marriage sometimes maintaining physical intimacy can be a lot of work. JMHO.[/quote]
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