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[quote=Anonymous]I guess I did leave out some details.  DW started exercising/running about 4 years ago now after having some concerns about health.  Has lost significant weight because of it and have told her she looks great.  Sex before that was probably 3-4x/month.  Counselling was begun by DW after a big argument about a different race that involved travel.  It was related to a race that I asked if she would do this as a walk with me.  Bad knees keep me from being a runner, but can walk a good distance.  She refused to consider it, so I refused to go.  I think she believes I'm picking on her, but all I'm trying to do is have some time together like a date night.

I don't find her running to be a hobby at this point, but an obsession.  There's never any discussion as to something that may be going on that day/weekend.  Just signs up and doesn't consider any family conflict this may have.  To clarify, all kids are grown, so no little ones here.  In fact, one of her races was the morning of a daughter's wedding.  I can't make this stuff up.

To run races every weekend, many include both days, that's not a hobby.  This includes four days a week with running in the morning.  Most mornings I wake up, she's not even there.  Counselor suggested to cuddle to possibly rekindle the spark, but there have been no attempts at that.  I have made a couple of attempts and have been met rather coldly.

I have tried making suggestions about sex, times to do it, and never seems to be the right time or suggested time.  I am not a person who is selfish when it comes to having sex.  I'm very giving, if you catch my meaning.  And from the sounds and body movement, satisfaction is had on her part.  So I'm guessing that it still feels good to her.  But every 9-10 months is not a marriage.  I have not been unfaithful to this point, and really am trying to avoid that.  [/quote]

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