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[quote=Anonymous]I dont know which word correctly describes my feelings toward him! After the birth of our second child, I feel like I can't stand my husband anymore. He annoys me on every level. I feel so under appreciated. I work full time, cook, clean, bath the kids, take them to school, pick them up, etc. But somehow instead of getting the appreciation that I deserve, I end up being this evil wife who stresses my husband so much. He complains that I am thecause of being underappreciated because I dont provide him with an opportunity to appreciate me; by that he means that I have to be smiling and be cute all the time so he can brin himself to kiss me or cuddle  me or thank me!!!!
I feel like just because I married young, I was never able to establish my boundaries with my husband and now after being married for 15 years I feel like it is too late. I feel like he never made me feel like a woman and now he doesnt make me feel like a competent mom either. I am tired of this dynamic. I have gotten to a point where I dont care what he thinks or how he feels.
I feel like I have to stay with him for the sake of the kids, but part of me wants to live the life I want so badly that I want out.
What should I do? any suggestion as to how to make it work? or whethere I should leave?[/quote]

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