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[quote=Anonymous]I am writing hoping to get some good solid advice and respectfully ask that any snide remarks not be given. I have been married for 22 years. My husband and I have an OK relationship, OK sex life, OK everything. The first 5 or 6 years were great but things got into a routine, we got busy raising two kids and things honestly got a little boring but I went with it. I also got married at 23 so was very young.

Anyway, I feel like I am on the verge of having an affair. I dont' want to give too many details but its someone who I know also married and we know each other through our professions. We have had a long time attraction to each other and there have been mild flirtations but thats it. However recently we were both a seminar and a few of us had drinks after and he ended up walking me to my car,nothing happened but the attraction was intense and obvious. He called me yesterday and asked if I could meet him for dinner this week and I promptly said yes even surprising myself. Is this a huge mistake? What does my going say about my feeling for my H? That i no longer love him? I feel so torn. I really don't know what to do. I know if I go something will happen. This is my dlimena and yet if I dont I think I will always wonder and I feel so restless and anxious. I have never been through anything like this EVER. I dont know what to do. TO anyone who has done this...was it worth it or is it always a epic mistake?[/quote]

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