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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your follow up was passive. In the future, ask the woman out at the end of the date or call and ask her out. Putting the ball in her court after a decent, but iffy date is feminine energy.

You have nothing to lose by reaching out to her. Worst that could happen is she doesn't respond or tells you she isnt interested. You'd at least have closure.[/quote]

I don't know that this posted means about "feminine energy", but I agree with the rest of this advice. Putting the ball in her court after a first date could have been read by her as an indication that you weren't that interested. I read that men tend to read interactions/invitations broadly, as in -- when a woman says, "maybe" and man hears "likely yes". Conversely, women read interactions narrowly -- when a man says "maybe", a woman hears, "no, thanks". A generalization, I know, but I've often found this to be true. So anyway, she may have been open to a second date if you'd asked at the time, and may still be open to one now if you let her know you are interested. [/quote]

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